What is Consent?

Consent is simple—it’s about making sure everyone involved actually wants to do something. It’s a clear, enthusiastic, and voluntary “yes” to any activity, whether it’s holding hands, kissing, or sex.

But consent isn’t just a one-time thing. It’s an ongoing conversation that should always involve mutual respect and clear communication.

What Consent Really Means

At its core, consent means giving permission for something to happen. But it’s not just a checkbox—it’s about checking in with your partner and making sure they feel comfortable every step of the way.

 Consent sounds like: 

“I’d love to!”

“Yes, that feels good.”

“Can we slow down?” (because consent also means setting your own pace!)

 Consent is NOT: 

Silence or uncertainty

Feeling pressured or guilty into saying “yes”

Someone being too drunk, high, or unconscious to respond

The Age of Consent

In the UK, the legal age of consent is 16. That means anyone under 16 legally can’t agree to sexual activity.

Consent Can Be Withdrawn at Any Time

Just because you agreed to something before doesn’t mean you have to continue if you change your mind. If something doesn’t feel right, you have every right to say “Stop”—and your partner should respect that.

Consent in Relationships

Being in a relationship doesn’t mean automatic consent. You still need to check in with each other. A healthy relationship is built on respect, communication, and mutual decisions—not assumptions.

When Consent Can’t Be Given

Consent doesn’t count if someone is:

Under the age of consent

Too drunk or high to make a clear decision

Asleep or unconscious

Being pressured, manipulated, or threatened

If someone is in any of these situations, then any sexual activity is not consensual—and that’s illegal.

How to Make Sure Consent is Always Clear

• Ask: “Are you okay with this?”
• Listen: Pay attention to their words, body language, and emotions.
• Respect: If they hesitate or say no, stop immediately.

Consent in Action (Example)

“Is it okay if I kiss you?” “Yeah, I’d really like that.” That’s consent—simple, clear, and respectful.

Consent isn’t just about rules—it’s about respecting each other and making sure everyone feels safe and comfortable in a relationship. The best way to know if someone is into something? Ask. Listen. Respect.

No pressure. No assumptions. Just clear, enthusiastic, and mutual agreement. That’s real consent.